Families with candidates

 (A)
Background: Candidates for the study
Time: evening
People: Xiaodong (high candidates), father, mother
dialogue scene:
from the entrance for less than a months, and a little like the East and the other candidates, too hectic to review, and his parents, like parents, like other candidates, not only to fully protect the children of the hh
over his body clock has been pointing to half past ten p.m., and Xiaodong still anxiety, perhaps because it has not resolved some problems, maybe one day countdown to his frustration, perhaps comparisons between the students what his parents are thought hh pressure, but this time, got the time and his son talk? middle-aged parents, can only be the best way they think make the best Xiaodong atmosphere.
(eleven times, Siu Tung and stretched. Unexpectedly, the outstretched right hand hit a people, Siu Tung shocked, looked back and see my father standing behind him quietly.)
Dad (smiling): Son, you want to drink the water (hands him a towel)?
Xiaodong (laughs took the towel and wiped his forehead): No, Dad, I have water, not moving it!
father: very anxious to see you (take over the towel). Do not worry, slow slow to, nothing can not be resolved hh
Siu Tung: Well, OK, Dad, you first go off, I can do it.
Dad: Well, I will rest, to let me know what , you have to lose Yeah!
(Siu Tung on the idea of once again focused on analytic geometry. He sometimes those graphics and letters, numbers around in, but now he had to find those tough questions to to do, he thought, quickly finished it, I do not want another reason you (mathematics), in farewell, let you bully me again a few days! So he planted the first to see examples, read it and digest it, Then do exercises hh finally, he scored one, and he has not done This question is usually out. To this end, he took a deep sigh of relief, a sense of confidence wells, which left him self-confidence With the interest in these issues, so he wanted to do a few road.
to faint, he felt the existence of a cool breeze behind him, looked back door, the four eyes had been watching him with concern.) < br> Xiaodong (Shuangshouyitan): Oh, Dad, Mom (smile), please, you go back to sleep!
mother (gently approached him, put a glass of milk on the desk, rubbed his head ): Son, your dad said you just sweat a lot, much more attention to add water.
Xiaodong (he turned looked at the mother): You have been standing outside looking at me?
mother (nods): afraid of you, no come.
Xiaodong (standing up): Mom, you (shaking his head), do you what to do, okay? not because I upset your schedule, affecting your body, Then I test this thing, what sense?
Mom: Good, good, good (to my father handed a glance), we go, but you have to pay attention to nutrition, something that we (get out the door).
Xiaodong (gently introduced to my mother): Do not worry, Mom (door)!
(b)
Background: the way to go to the examination room
time: one hour before exam
person you: Ibid
dialogue scene:
watch an hour away from the entrance, the parents of the heart pounding painfully. may be small at this time East and back seemed more calm. On the way, my father drove my mother Xiaodong sitting around.
mother (looking at the road ahead): son, Do not panic, and now everything must go, and do not take it seriously, what is remarkable, not that (my father looked back at her a) hh, however, do not be too lightly. how such a road block today? always not so blocking (see table, look at the front of the wind with a handkerchief), really, hey, can you find a way past that!
Dad: No, this is the nearest way, but still early. son, you can relax and look out the window, or blind for a while, do not read the.
Mom: Yes, son , crash course is useless, the key is, you have to maintain a sense of balance.
Dad (nod, looking at the front): Yes, do something, the most important sense of balance, especially in such times, the Before the battlefield.
Xiaodong (looking out the window): Dad, Mom, when you have so much emphasis on college entrance you?
Dad: Well, when our college entrance examination, how can people drive pick ah, then my Brother, that is your uncle, I took leave of absence noon meal, what food? a steamed corn bread, a piece of Jiang Doufu hh
Mom: When my college entrance examination is the number of girls band together and children, have long come to the examination room, Later, we invariably find a place to read.
Xiaodong: What do your parents do not send you?
Dad: They go to work, and besides, my family has more than one child, you need someone to take care of other children , how do you say? then conditions are not so good hh
Mom: There are good condition, but few of us learn to be good girls are top-notch in class, do not need to worry about their parents, usually do things in one, the entrance is almost just like quizzes.
Xiaodong: So why do you gotta show me, unlike you do?
Dad (mirrors, looked at them): No, the small East, now pressure than the children of us hh
Xiaodong (interrupting): Look at this way, all parents send their children to the exam, can no traffic jams? Do you keeps me maintain a normal, but (see the flow of people out of the window, pointing to piles of parents school gate), I really do not understand the university entrance exam is really that important?
(Fig. 18)
Phenomenon:
Here, we can really understand Candidates attitude of parents, they really care about their children too, and both distressed and worried too much emphasis on the fear of children not only take live. how much they want to help more children to share a part of, if the child pass the test successfully, but not hard, and that is best. And so, as many candidates as parents, the small East, parents are the children privately, weal or woe, break through the storm together.
character analysis:
But they forget the small East is a child, and then grow tall, it is only a very limited mental capacity of high school (mental capacity is a setback given). too much attention to their parents, he is difficult to bear, he would this When things are showing that I (the child) is able to afford it? This is like a child would have a weight they can lift, and before he moves, the parents ran mm lift with him then, although this weight was lifted, but the children do not know whether independently, so the ability of their uncertainty. It is the lack of confidence!
once read a report that an athlete in international competition, due to be out of action errors, then the small cried about field players, other players came to comfort her, she always says one thing: the main reason. In that interview, she was usually quite hard training, capacity is also outstanding in the team, however, before the expedition, leadership and coaches told her to see her this time, and can not get brand, can not be beat, even for a few coherent hh can honor of the motherland and national rejuvenation, etc., these tasks, all to be by her, a small, sixteen-year-old girl only to be responsible. and a girls, where Tam had so many responsibilities, pressures, enough to spread her energy, affecting her normal play, so let her defeated.
and the small East, though his parents did not give him the next What task indicators, body language (do not rest, attention behind him) and so on, as leaders and coaches who treat players the way that little fact has been hinted that he, forced to disperse to other things not related.
Depth Reviews:
was asked in the consultation, not to say that parental love is the prerequisite for the success child? Then how true love together, children are even suited to it? In fact, this is a sense of proportion of moderation. a person, if not to eat, or total enough to eat, he would not have the strength, but if you eat too much, it will insisted. In fact, family relations, parents like food and clothing the children, parents should not let the children off food, nor does it make it, he can not stand the look. and must be taken to Components include not only food, but also the degree of concern of parents, parents their own patterns of life, etc., that is, the best are relatively healthy and not have too much change, because change, whether positive or negative, will give her children 76% of the play. and this is the sense of normalcy in the state.
However, when Xiaodong see out the window at the school gate, so many parents have been quietly under the sun in the hot sun, etc., where these parents know that their behavior, in much extent, to the examination room within the child can not maintain a normal? this wait, hope, concerns, and children do not love their parents, how could they not care about the body and the idea of parents? In the car, the small east side of the child to maintain an ordinary mother, while anxious to see the road ahead, complain about traffic, with a handkerchief from time to time the wind hh These feelings and behavior, are anxious to convey a, and the vehicle status to those parents, did not make any difference, they have been ?
Mind Prescription:
Therefore, parents should not give children a The premature under these pressures. we should have to learn a practice learned from Japan and South Korea: when exams roll around, school shuttle bus to pick up the candidates, they allowed parents to send, so as not to block traffic, but also affect the candidate's state of mind. bus police will clear the way, this has been to enable candidates to have a But they also will solemnly up. on the bus, all the candidates with the same mission, they felt that ; parents to personally pick After all, no candidates to advise parents not to let his anxiety affect children's normal play. your anxiety, from the over-emphasis on academic qualifications, then the child received your message: too much emphasis on education! a pair of his examination negative (due to psychological burden is too heavy), two will ignore the other abilities, after the success of the three will be at a loss. and this is the origin of many college students with autism, but also Gaofendineng source of self-denial are more likely to result in complex, leading to frustration , thus the formation of permanent inferiority. then he / she has such a long way to go, why you want to lock it in this short period of three days? Besides that, his life, are just a to decision? really responsible parents, is accompanied by, the proposal is a critical moment, not a replacement for your ordinary and forced mm moves and thinking, is his / her sense of balance basis, please do not forget, children are the parents mirror.
soul motto:
real generals, the more battle front, the more calm, then, soldiers did not likely .